I’m at the point in my life where I finally know what “taking it slow” means. I don’t want to much of anything right now. Completely immersing yourself and over indulging in something to quickly is the easiest way to get tired of things
Don’t know if the neglect is a good or bad thing. At a crossroads right now and any decision I make could lead to new begginings. Just because they’re options doesn’t mean you have to explore them and I guess that’s what’s most scary for me. The “unknown”. Everything in life isn’t certain and I’m ok with that but that doesn’t make it any easier. I’m organically growing into new relationships. I guess it was time to put my foot down.
We live in an era now where everything is Internet driven. Everything and everyone is using social media as some sort of platform. Here’s the thing that all users need to understand. What you post is how you’ll be treated. If you’re a female and you use those sites to show off your body, then you have to be able handle the attention that comes with that. Don’t expect positive attention of your aren’t portraying positive posts. Now , this isn’t a knock to people who do that, it’s just a double edged sword. Granted, everybody loves nice pictures. Everyone enjoys seeing it. It’s eye candy. Just know that those images mirror themselves both literally and figuratively.
LOVE……What is love? The age old question right? I’m sure millions of people have posted about this on numerous pages and you probably have read millions of views and thoughts about it. Now I hate to rant, I hate to talk about inevitable topics like love because its so cliché. Everyone has a point of view and its been reiterated so many times. But I would like to give my take. The 2 big questions are, at least for me, is whether or not your love continue to get stronger the more you get to know someone or do you eventually chip away at it when things like trust, infidelity ,loyalty, respect all get violated. Now its easy to say that at the first sign of betrayal you leave. But that’s not what a relationship is about is it? Aren’t you supposed to be strong enough to forgive your partner? Be a strong enough person to move on from certain thing? Of course, I don’t think love is that specific and a lot of times you cant control but isn’t possible to be settled into something less than the amount you had when you first fell in love? I like to think that eventually over time both parties come down to earth a little and settle at comfortable common ground. Love is different now right? Sure, love is love but is comfort confused for love or is a branch of it? I think it all boils down to things, “It works for us”, being thrown around by a couple. It “works’. I think its nearly impossible to love someone with the same passion 20,30, even 40 years down the road because I believe by that point you just learn to deal with each other. The whole idea just isn’t realistic to me. However, I do feel its possible to love the same person differently at different times. I think loves evolves into other forms of compassion. I think you can fall in love with the same person over and over again for different reasons but never feel the same love twice. Make sense?
Ok. Interesting topic was discussed a little at work today. Whether or not sex tape is a good career move. Supposedly there was pageant held a few years ago where Miss Delaware lost her title because she made a sex tape. That’s ridiculous if you ask me because she didn’t do anything illegal. We all have sex. Everyone at some point in their lives experience sex. This day and age, everybody is doing it. Now, that doesn’t mean everybody should just go out and make one. I’m just saying it isn’t a crime. They’re tons of people making a good living off of that industry and honestly I think its wrong to judge anybody off of it. A celebrity could do a sex tape and it makes the front page meanwhile most porn actors/actress’ aren’t even a household name. You mean to tell me Miss Delaware is any less of a women or any less attractive because she took part in an act we all do? Nonesense.
Ever had that feeling where someone could be right in front of you and still feel alone? That feeling where you no longer understand each other. Where it’s bigger than people just changing. Where the distance between you and and the person you used to know almost kills you? The spiritual separation hurts. Where you in constant distress and you feel like you need to blame yourself because what other logical reason would it be right? Where you’re no longer worried about losing that person but more worried about whether they’ll remember you.